. A man's view on rape - when victims become culprits
Women around the world need to understand that men in any given circumstance will protect their own even when they know the other man is totally wrong so long as that wrong doing does not directly affect them. The predominant state of most men is sexual in many forms. The man decides the barriers he puts to it.
No matter the victim bashing and accusation, women must know that, nothing is ever their fault when it comes to sexual harassment, defilement and rape. Mostly viewed as the weaker member of society giving some men the opportunity to take advantage of them to satisfy their own desires.
Men who force themselves on women only do so because over the years, they have fed their minds with depraved thoughts, pornography (music, pictures, stories, movies) and only want to act it out. And as such may be described as cowards. It is never your fault as a woman to be taken advantage of even if you wake up one morning and decide to walk the street in just your panties. As a man I have already purposed in my mind to have sex with an attractive lady, pretty smile, eyes, lips, beautiful walk to complement the figure, nice legs etc. Any one of these will trigger my sexual desires but not enough reason to force myself on a woman.
If I want sex, it’s not because you have exposed part of your body or you are flirting with me or something of the sort. I have personally created the need for sex with you without your consent. I just need to work the ropes and wait for the moment.
It takes two people for sex to occur. Don’t blame yourself if you didn’t call for it. Just put me away.
#stop #victim #blaming
#short #dresses & #skirt doesn't #warrant #rape
#stop #justifying #rape
Rape is sex without consent irrespective of how the person is dressed. (Sistaclinik)
A rapist has chosen to have no self-control; feels entitled and is being encouraged by society.
#sexabuse #sexualabuse #endviolenceagainstwomen